Gold Tooth and Tattoos, really?

Ok, maybe I am a snob.  I will accept that criticism.  I was commuting on the train to my office downtown.  And there was a guy dressed all in white.  I was probably staring.  He was cute, in an off beat sort of way.  I just couldn't get past the tattoo on his neck.  I try to picture myself making love to a man with a tattoo on his neck and I have never seen myself with a man who had more than one or two tats and not on the freakin' neck.  How old are we?  Then he struck up a conversation with me.  And why did he have one gold tooth?  Just ruin my whole vibe right there.  I still gave him my number though.  Maybe this is an exercise in acceptance?  Non-judgement? Maybe it is just to show me what I want vs. what I don't want.  I have not been able to take anything that guy has said to me seriously since we talked on a few occasions.  I did make a mental note to tell my children to only get tattoos that can be covered up in a tank top if they aren't on your upper arms.  Avoid tattoos on any place that is very visible.  It may cost you in ways you hadn't expected.

Then, I went to my Reiki healing class as I always do.  And saw one of my class mates who is a wonderful brother that has a gang of tattoos.  I don't judge him the same way as I judged that man on the train.  his tats are all spiritual and Reiki related so I think those are good.  By the same token, any person on the street would see him and think of him what I thought of the other guy.  Why is this man all tatted up?  He doesn't have tats on his neck.  He does have them on his fore arm, and even the palms of his hands.  Which is amazing to me.  When I look at him though, I see this incredible light.  Someone who wants to do great things as a healer and a very powerful, special individual.

Neck Tat Brother is just as valuable but I'm just not sure I want to date him.  I don't leave our conversations feeling like I have been talking with a light being who is really cool and doing great things.  I feel like I've been in a conversation with myself even though I was talking to someone else.  That can't be good when you are not talking to yourself.  Who is to blame, me or him?  Maybe I am not curious enough about people.  Maybe I am too jaded.  Maybe I am too suspicious.  Maybe I just don't feel him like that.  He is like all of us more than just the sum of his exterior parts, right?  Maybe the problem is that I can't feel that connection with him that I do with other people for some reason. Hmmmm....What is it?  I have to let that one marinade for a while.

Here's to love and curious combinations.   

Satisfied Customers-Love is Needed

I completed my first love letter assignment and it was well received.  I will hopefully be able to share my customers testimonial with you later.  However right now I have to say that one thing he said to me stands out that projects like these love letters are needed.  That really touched my heart.  Remember that song...What the World Needs Now is Love?  It is really true.  At this time in life things are really challenging and we may be forgetting what is truly valuable and important.  And loving each other, expressing that love and expanding that love to those around us is what is important.  If we all did that even for part of the day, say 15 minutes a day with people we know and with strangers we could change the world. Change the World through love, compassion, expression.  One letter at a time I am loving you.

All that said, I need some more volunteers for love letters.  I will treat you like a paying customer and you will enjoy a little love in your day and the day of your loved one.  E-mail me.  Follow me.  Connect with me.  I look forward to hearing from you.

Love,

LoveLettersforYou1

Inspired by Room in Rome

Make love to me like we are both women.  Touch me with your hand.  Stroke me with your knowing.  Talk to me with a soft, sweet voice. Caress me with your gentle sigh. Explore me with your mystery. Meet my body as an equal with your own body.  Take me and let me take you.  No domination between us, no fear, no games, no pretense.   Only passion, feeling, desire, and honest care.  Smooth skin against smooth skin.  Hand to hand.  Heart to heart, eye to eye, nipple to nipple.  Our breath rising and falling in unison.  Our legs entwined.  You touch my cheek, I touch yours-all of them. Squeezing, rocking, shuddering we come and we stay, we never go.  I tremble, you shake, we moan.  Roll away, exhale and roll back again, look into each others' eyes, smile, laugh and start again.

Kissing You

All my posts are about you. I still remember kissing you. I always kiss you when I see you.  There is not another person who isn't a relative that I kiss them every time I see them.  What blows my mind about that is if I don't kiss you when I see you...you kiss me. (Slowly a huge smile spreads across my face)
That feels right. More love, more kisses, more goodness in the world. 

I love you, I love you, I love you and you get on my f*@kin' nerves sometimes

To my children:

I love you so much it hurts a little bit.  I love you when you get suspended from school.  I love you when you get As and I love you when you don't do your chores.  I love you when you are just being you.  I love you sooooo, soooo, sooooo much.  I love you. However, when you don't do your homework, when you get in trouble at school, when you are slapping the crap out of each other while I am trying to drive this damn car....you get on my f*@kin' nerves. Seriously,  what is a mom to do?  I can not punch you in the face right now.   I would love to be able to just give you hugs and kisses all the time.  That would make me so happy.  But no.  You require chastising on a very, very regular basis.  It seems like I have my foot up your ass every day.   I do this because I love you too.  So that when you are a grown man the police won't have a foot up your ass.  Yes, I love you, love you, love you soooo much.  And you do get on my f*@kin' nerves sometimes. I found myself talking with myself today.  Reminding myself that some day, you will be a grown up and you will go out into the world and make your own way.  And this made me smile.  Not because you will be gone out of my house.  It made me smile because I know that when the time comes you will be prepared to be successful in life and you will have a good life.  I pray for that everyday.  I pray for you to have a long, successful life and for the day you getting on my f*@kin' nerves is just some funny memories of your childhood.  I love you, I love you, I love you.  I love you more than you get on my nerves.

Volunteers Requested

Dear All:

I would like to offer 5 free love letters (one per person for five different people).  If you need help putting your love into words.  I will do it for you free of charge for one free hand written love letter not to exceed 500 words.  If you would like to be one of my lucky in love five just e-mail me at lovelettersforyou1@gmail.


Feel the Love.

When is There Going to Be a Time for Love

I was listening to Stevie Wonder sing this song "When is there going to be a time for love?"  What a question.  At this time our country is at war in two countries and giving out check-ups to other countries too.  The majority of Americans are experiencing economic challenges of some variety.  Our educational system is broken.  People are going just a little crazier every few years.  And I like Stevie, do wonder when is there going to be a time for love?

They say the only thing that can truly overcome hate is love.  Love can start or end a war.  Love can build a house and make a home.  Love is the highest form of faith.  Unconditional love is simple it is acceptance just the way you are right now.  You don't have to change your hair, get rich, lose ten pounds- I love you just the way you are right now, in this moment. Isn't that beautiful?  You are loved and you do matter.  The time for change is now.  The time for love is now.  I have faith in God and God is love.  I have faith in Love.  Love can never be defeated.  Never.

If you haven't lately, tell someone you love them today. Now is the time to share your love with the world.